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In your own words what would your answer be to the following questions;

What is the meaning of life? What's it all about? Who are we? and why are we here? I'm sat here thinking of the existence on our planet and earth in general, so many people have been born and billions more have died. We are just a very tiny speck that exist within the universe that we even don't know how big it is and if ever there is a start and and end point to it.

This type of thinking has in a way changed the way I live.

Please guys, I'd love to hear your own comments and views on this, not to be preached at. Cheers

Particularly in the IT sector.

I just got this idea that had just came to me.

I've never actually done anything for charity and I thought to myself I'd also like to do something that i've never done before, something that i'll enjoy doing and while at it I'll do it for a good course, so I thought about a long drive, driving from England (UK) to Johannesburg (South Africa), it will be a long and tiring expedition.

So while everything is starting to become more and more clear to me I realised that I may need some advice, anyone who's got any information that may be use full it would be great to hear from you. I'm also wondering if I could get any sponsors, how would I go about getting the donations in and advise on what i will need to equip myself with...

Thanks guys I'm really looking forward to some really good responses.

Hi

Just need some of your views or if you weren in my situation what would you do?

OK, I'm 23 and I'm aslo married with a 10 month old son. My partner is 26 and we've been together for 3 years. Since we got married and had a baby our finances have really shot straight down, I'm not a person who likes being in dept (well I guess no one likes to be in debt) but from the past 2 years we've accumilated so much debt that It's starting to freak me out, I don't blame my wife or my son as we were spending it all together

We both come from different countries and living in the UK, the probem I've got is I'm getting tired of working and having just enough money to pay the bills and groceries and have nothing left after a week I get paid. We live in a nice flat but also expensive too.

So I came up with a suggestion to my wife that we move somewhere cheaper or share a house with mybe another couple so we can sort out our finances and atleast start saving as we have absolutey no savings but she crushed both the ideas, I ask her what are we going to do and she never answers as she doesn't know.

I would like to go back home next year to start a business that I've been thinking alot about, and I feel that I need to start sorting things out NOW, pay off all the debts, save up some money, get the things I'l need and head off, she kinda likes the idea but I can tell she not really 100% sure.

So a few weeks ago I asked if she could go back to her moms house back in Europe for atleast 4 months so I can rent a single room, sell my car as I can cycle to work (can't sell now due to having the baby), and just basically live hard for that time just to get rid of the debt and atleast have some money in the bank for both us, my son and the future. At the moment I can't even think clearly because I'm with my boy everyday after work as she works evenings at a restaurant plus I've got a few courses I'm doing and have no time to study aswell. But the wife insits that she doesn't want to separate, even if we send our boy to live with my wife's mom, she'll never share a house with anyone.

I have alot of things that I feel they need sorting out plus my dream of starting that business after I finish my studies, but I kinda feel that I'm being held back by my wife. If I was on my own I would have probaly achieved quite alot as I had before I met her. Now I'm just stuck because I'm always trying to make her and my son happy and It's so difficult as I feel I can't make these choices alone. My wife has no abitions no dreams and no goals and I'm also scared to leave her.

I've explained that I need the time alone and start planning ahead, I also need time to find mysef again and all I need is 4 to 6 months alone with occational visits ofcourse, then when they come back we'll have a fresh start.

But everytime I bring this issue up we end up in an argument and the mode just changes. She is comfortable at the moment but I've said she needs to think about the future, In this current economic crisis alot of people are loosing their jobs, and If something happens with mine, I don't think we'll even survive for a month.

So what do you guys think I should do? Should we carry on living like this and hopefully things will come right, I can't force here to go to her mom's, should I give her a month to come up with a saving plan, or should we separate so I can do what I need to do and for her to realise she's not living the dream yet?

As you all probably already know, the influx of migrants in other countries is highly influenced by the stronger currency of that particular country, making immigrants better off in a foreign country.

England, for example is one of those, there has been an increase of migrants in the previous years, I mean, fair enough, people emmigrate to be better off and to make a decent living. My question is, since all that is influenced by the stronger currencies, what whill then happen If the Euro was equal or higher to the pound, would the Europeans return back to their home land because and be closer to the family or would they stay, well... that's if things are ofcoures abit cheaper.

To be hounest, it's a fact that most of the people who are looking for a No strings attached sex are mostly men.

Sometimes I wonder if it is true if women do look for sex, especially on the internet.

I personaly have never had such an encounter but would trully be interested in having the experience, although I'm in a fair relationship which my partner has a really low sex drive.

I sometimes feel that I'm missing some excitement out there.

So when it comes to alot of those dating sites, Unless you're a Premium member all you can do is browse profiles but can't chat to other members, well unless you're female which is Free I guess. On top of that some of the profiles are iether fake or full of spam.

So, can anyone let me know, since chating in Yahoo is free and I know that most people here are really genuine.

To be hounest, it's a fact that most of the people who are looking for a No strings attached sex are mostly men.

Sometimes I wonder if it is true if women do look for sex, especially on the internet.

I personaly have never had such an encounter but would trully be interested in having the experience, although I'm in a fair relationship which my partner has a really low sex drive.

I sometimes feel that I'm missing some excitement out there.

So when it comes to alot of those dating sites, Unless you're a Premium member all you can do is browse profiles but can't chat to other members, well unless you're female which is Free I guess. On top of that some of the profiles are iether fake or full of spam.

So, can anyone let me know, since chating in Yahoo is free and I know that most people here are really genuine.

I'm 22 and she is 25, been married for a year now, I'm gutted to think that my missus has lost interest in sex, what will the futer be like?Thing is my sex drive is SKY HIGH and I understand we r both defferent.I still go out often with friends and loads of girls show interest but don't want to start cheating.

We had sex atleast 2wice a day or 3times before we got married but now it just shot straight downhill and the other thing is she hates porn, will never touch a vibrator, definatley won't use lubricants or anything that is a sex toy and won't have a second round of sex.

I have tried 2 speak to her about my sexual needs and even thought to give up on sex (But i can't), Just now i've recently joined a gym and bought a playstation to take my mind off sex, it is so hard. I find myself watching porn and having to mastubate everyday just so I don't bother her.

Can someone help, Am I being unreasonable?

Currently on my msn I only have 4 contacts, How can i search for new friends and old friends without knowing their e-mail address.Like on sype for example i have a people search,how can i do it on MSN?