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Homeboy
Homeboy asked in Family & RelationshipsMarriage & Divorce · 1 decade ago

Wife thinks I have a problem because I want sex almost everyday or Morning. What can I do.?

I'm 22 and she is 25, been married for a year now, I'm gutted to think that my missus has lost interest in sex, what will the futer be like?Thing is my sex drive is SKY HIGH and I understand we r both defferent.I still go out often with friends and loads of girls show interest but don't want to start cheating.

We had sex atleast 2wice a day or 3times before we got married but now it just shot straight downhill and the other thing is she hates porn, will never touch a vibrator, definatley won't use lubricants or anything that is a sex toy and won't have a second round of sex.

I have tried 2 speak to her about my sexual needs and even thought to give up on sex (But i can't), Just now i've recently joined a gym and bought a playstation to take my mind off sex, it is so hard. I find myself watching porn and having to mastubate everyday just so I don't bother her.

Can someone help, Am I being unreasonable?

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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago
    Favourite answer

    You are not being unreasonable as far as I can make out from what you have said. Have you thought of maybe going to counseling for this issue as if it is not sorted out it can eventually destroy your marriage.

  • cholly
    1 decade ago

    I don't think that there is anything wrong with you and your wife should be happy that you still want to have sex. I wish mine would have wanted it that much and we might have still been together. Some people are just different just give her time she will come around, and don't cheat that is not the answer. Good Luck and you might just want to talk to her about it maybe something else is going on that you do not know about.

  • cakeboy4
    1 decade ago

    I agree with the person above. You and her need to sort this problem out before it really becomes serious. I know people say that sex is not important but that's BS. Handle the situation before it handles you

  • Fine Like Wine in 09
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    no you are not being unreasonably talk to her and let her know or try to do more to get her in the mood when it comes to sex

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