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Accused of hiding stuff but your spouse is the one who does it. Let's get a convo started pls. Help me understand.?
Okay so, last weekend I ordered Uber eats for me and the kids for dinner. My husband was in his garage drinking (as usual). I went to throw out the trash and I told him I had ordered food (fyi I paid the order!) So saturday and sunday passes and monday afternoon he flips out and says why I am hiding stuff from him and that he "only knew" bc he went into our online banking (he rarley deposits money in it) he made a huge deal meanwhile I told him he was notified with details etc. He went way over dramatic that night. I didn't say a word to him at all that night until the next day. He still had a damn attitude. So he has the audacity to make this huge drama about ordering Uber eats and supposedly me not telling him. But today he went to his ex's house (I found out bc his gmail is on the computer) he was there over an hour. He never told me he was going to pass by to "see his son" anyway why does he make it big and says I hide stuff when he is the one doing it?
My problem is not him seeing his child if that is what he really went to do but why accuse me if I am not doing that, but he does it alot and never mentions anything to me.
I text him if he was okay bc he usually is texting throughout the day and after 2 pm today he didn't log into social media (weird) but his response was "are you okay 😏" and got so mad he said in spanish that if I am going to start **** again and blocked me?!
What the hell is his issue?
3 Answers
- ?Lv 72 weeks ago
The clue could be your remark that "he was in his garage drinking (as usual)". Alcohol affects the brain and clouds the judgement if over used. At least if he is usually in the garage he isn't cheating! On the other hand accusing people is often a cover-up.
An hour with is son isn't very much, one might think - I am a little surprised that you find it suspicious - but perhaps you have your reasons.
Good Luck!
Source(s): jamforlife.org - Barb OuthereLv 72 weeks ago
Those who are cheating or doing wrong find it so easy to accuse others of it. For two reasons.
1. They know just how easy it is to fall into a pattern of lying/not telling.
2. While you are busy defending yourself you aren't looking so closely at what they are doing.
Don't allow this double standard to continue.