Is this Sexual Abuse? ?

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I was so little I don’t even know if it’s a memory or a dream. When I was in pre-k, a boy that was in kindergarten sat next to me on the bus. We were talking like little kids do but then he started asking about my “private parts” I remember him asking if I would show them to him and if anyone had seen them before. I just said no until he finally convinced me to let him put his hand in my pants.

I don’t know if this is abuse since he was only about 5 or 6 while I was 4 or 5. I remember it so well but it also feels like it could’ve been a dream that I just happen to remember from when I was little.

? · Answer

the real question is.. did you do it back 😉😉😏😏😏😏

WinterRose · Answer

I wouldn't worry about it, as all kids go through a period of curiosity about there own bodies and the bodies of the opposite sex.  It's normal actually to be curious.  That's how we learn as a spicies.  We're not exactly monkeys running around naked, for the whole world to see, so curious children often resort to these methods as you described.  Please get over your guilt.  You're just like the rest of us.

blackhole · Answer

No, he was just a curious child.

? · Answer

Same age children all right considered to be sexual abusers unless they force you.

Breakthrough · Answer

It’s abusive yes but not the same type of abuse as rape or assault

Audrey · Answer

While it was wrong, children that age often do things like that. Don't worry about it.

? · Answer

That is not abuse but curiosity, a five or six your old has no concept of sexual exploitation. .

Is this Sexual Abuse? ?

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