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Having the intuition to know when you're compatible with someone?
Earlier today I saw someone on twitter who caught my interest and I checked out her profile and I decided this was someone I'd like to get to know so I DM'd her. She responded and we ended up talking for over 3 hours to she had to go to bed. We talked about some personal things and she told me she was married but her husband cheated on her multiple times and she may divorce him. Before going to bed she told me she wanted to continue to talk to me and she text me when she wakes up tomorrow.
This isn't the first time I've done this type of thing, I seem to have a ability to automatically tell if I'm compatible with someone whether it before friendship compatibility or romantic compatibility. It's always a specific feeling I feel when seeing them which draws me towards them. I almost never just decide to message someone I usually only do that in the rare cases that someone gives me that feeling I talk about. Also I'm straight but I can and have gotten that feeling from guys as well because the feeling isn't necessarily romantic it's a sort of intuition which could lead into a romantic relationship but not always.
3 Answers
- Anonymous1 year ago
If your intuition is so good, how come you are still single?
Intuition depends on your subconscious picking up on the subtle signals the other person gives off. And that depends on being with them in person. You cannot have accurate intuitions about someone unless you are with them in person.
Further than that, it takes at least 2 years of steady dating to get past our fantasies that we project onto the other person and start to know them clearly for who they actually are.
And no one is compatible. No relationship will be perfect. Only those who can learn how to work with their emotions are able to accept the flaws in their partner.
She’s married. So she cheat on her husband. If your idea of a compatible woman is someone who will cheat on YOU, then you two are indeed compatible.
You really are working off of a lot of subconscious delusional thinking. None of these answers seem to think you are a rational individual.
- ?Lv 71 year ago
You are probably only hearing voices, either that or you are naive. You are looking for some kind of applause for your unwise choices. You think you know what’s happening but you have no foresight and understanding of consequences for foolish actions. I sense you have to see for yourself and that is not uncommon these days with social media. It’s your life and good luck.
- ?Lv 71 year ago
Your intuition seems to not be working properly.. she's MARRIED. That means she's going behind her husbands back talking to you. He may be a cheater but she is not in divorce proceedings--she's cheating also talking to you. And your taking her at her word that all this is even true. It may not be. You don't know if he's the type that would flip out if he finds out about you and either hurt her or come hunting you down. And what amazes me is you don't seem to care. Marriage is a sacred vow. Until that is ended legally you should back off or be the scum that is cheating with his wife in court proceedings. And by the way--MAY divorce him is not the same as GETTING a divorce.
