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married? how is your intimacy after children?
male or female, how would your rate your intimacy level after you have kids, have things changed?
Ronny, I don't want to scare you. I am just asking :)
For me: three kids 2,4,7 even though it is good we did have more time before the kids. Of course if you ask my husband he would probably say it has change a whole lot.... been married nine years... i can't remember all the details
6 Answers
- Anonymous1 decade agoFavourite answer
The reason sex diminishes when a couple have a baby is because usually the man doesn't do enough to take care of the baby and the house and expects his wife to do it all as if shes wonderwoman, obviously she is too tired for sex, if he was more considerate they'd have time for it.
Marriage is 50/50.
It's not about take take take.
- farmerswifeLv 41 decade ago
Married 6 years, 2 kids 4yo and 2yo. Intimacy same as before kids pretty much. We actually connect better during sex no than we did before and the quantity is only slightly lower than before kids. Sometimes the lock the doors and be quiet is kinda fun in the middle of the day, or early morning.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Female....2 children, 4 and 7.....Intimacy still exists but a little less due to always being tired and many other things going on.
- 1 decade ago
All i know is i dated a woman with a kid and it sucked, she couldn't leave her kid for one second just to hook me up with some goods. When i finally got it it was good but ffff yeah i will never date somebody who puts her kid 1st 24/7. Come onnnn ya gotta make time.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
it made my husband a better man because he became responsible and hardworking all for the love of me and of our daughter..i'm so proud of him and i love him forever.