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Is it bad that I want 5 kids with him?

I'm really thinking about having 5 kids with my babys father. But my family think I'm dumb for wanting that many kids with him considering we always need a baby sitter or money. Like OK?  Lol Isn't that what family is for? I mean, yeah, he may not pay child support, is living with and driving my car. But, I don't mind! because I can always ask my sister to take me to work or get on the bus. Or, If he doesn't want to help with our kids, I'll get my parents to do it.  Is this bad that I want 5 with him?🤔 my doctor did recommended that I get on Birth control because they said, he, my baby's father doesn't look responsible enough for kids (which made me mad) lol because he is irresponsible - that's why he has me to help him become a better man 😁

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  • 2 weeks ago

    If you personally cannot support and raise any kids you have, then best not to have them until you can. Do not rely on him or the government to provide you with money. Either can fail.

    Kids are expensive and the world is obscenely overpopulated (as evidenced by all the starving people in the world).

    We need LESS kids for about 100+ years or so.

    You want 5 kids to LOCK him into a relationship.

    That denotes your poor character.

  • 2 weeks ago

    If you cannot support 5 kids and your family is relying on your access to essential services and such then you should not have 5 kids. It does not get easier after the first one.

  • 2 weeks ago

    It's your life. Actually you and your baby father's life so I guess as long as you guys could afford it (preferrably WITHOUT FoodStamps/Welfare, etc!) then go ahead, no one can stop you (and him). You guys have something called reprodcutive rights so..

  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

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  • ?
    Lv 6
    2 weeks ago

    first get rid of your doctor , and you husband cant afford 5 kids , sounds like he is responsible and your not .You cant afford it so get 5 kids out your head . 

  • 2 weeks ago

    My problem with this story is that you want to have more kids with someone who doesn't pay child support,he is living with you,driving you car and is not financially stable. Do you think it's a good idea to have 5 kids with your babys father?? You wrote on Yahoo answers because this is something that is concerning you. I would say do what your doctor says and not have anymore children.It is not your job to help him become a better man he has to choose to want to do that. If he doesn't become that man, you'll  not only be raising 5 children but additional 1(your baby father). You dont want to go down that road. My advice to you is stop relying on your sister and do you. What if something happens to your sister what are you going to do about getting to work. As a man he needs to be the one that is making plans to ensure you have a ride to get to and from work. And he is working on getting himself a car so he wont have to burden you with running up your gas and mileage.Thats what a man does, he take responsibility and makes things right for his lady. PERIOD! He isn't mature at all. Now you are going to do what you want anyway,but I'm going to say this one last thing. 

    If you decide to have more children with him, your daughters and sons will choose the t ype of person their father is or become like him. Can you honestly say that he is a role model and really teaches your children how a man should treat a women and how a man should act???? Think about it

  • Anonymous
    2 weeks ago

    The meter says it all!

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  • Good
    Lv 6
    2 weeks ago

    You are a parasite on society.  With that attitude you should be sterilized.

    Do NOT bring children into this world that you can not feed, house, and clothe without the help of others or the government.  You are a big part of what is wrong with this country.

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  • 2 weeks ago

    Everything is wrong with wanting to introduce 5 more destructive humans to this earth, but, you are acting out of instinct so nothing is going to stop you, not even the deadbeat daddy...    

  • 2 weeks ago

    Not sure I understand the question. There is nothing wrong with having five children.

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