I believe my boyfriend is going to propose! ?

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His parents flew from Their country, his family has been commenting about weddings to us. His brothers say stuff like “ look do you like this for your wedding “ or “look for your honeymoon” and also his brother was like “ man well this guy wants to to get married, what are you giving him” lol I’m like nothing lol 😆 his niece asked me what style of rings I liked. They’re making it obvious lol my boyfriend told me a few weeks before his parents got here that he can’t tell me but he’s planning for when his parents come and for something else and that I’ll find out soon. But he needs to save as much as he can after that so he might get a second job. My boyfriend has told me to do my nails (since I do my own acrylics at home) So isn’t this so obvious? Lol his parents rarely come and they did this month. His sister is coming next week as well. Idk am I illusional? Lol

Anonymous · Answer

You shouldn’t marry him, you both obviously lack communication skills.

T J · Answer

Do you want to really marry him? If not, break up now. That damn family is too involved in this. when he asks tell him NO.

Common Sense · Answer

lol. Sounds like you are going to be a fiancee soon. IoI. Relax. lol. Do your nails. loI.

lol. Sounds like there is NO SECRET. lol.

Anonymous · Answer

Why didn’t one of you say, thanks but we are not engaged. So we are not planning a wedding or honeymoon at this time.

I mean if he was going to propose they really have spoiled that didn’t they?

Kia · Answer

While it does sound like there is a proposal planned, I would caution you NOT to have any expectations. Just imagine it is something else- how down in the dumps would you feel? Be gentle and kind with yourself, avoid setting yourself up for disappointment.

Of course, wholly embrace it if/when it happens. But until then, there is no good in speculating and possibly letting yourself down

sunshine_mel · Answer

OK - no-one here still has any idea or not though. 
Seems possible, but no guarantees.

Kelley · Answer

Sounds like he will ask you.  Since you want to marry him, you can ask him to marry you.

Anonymous · Answer

From what you are saying it sounds like he is going to propose. I think you can generally tell because guys go way over the top with affection and attention. The other thing that you can look for is whether he has to go out shopping without you. For instance, I had a friend whose fiancé  started having to go out to dinners and couch shopping w/ his parents and wouldn't give her much info on his outings and ignored her when she would ask about it...a week later they are
 engaged.

Ultimately, what you may find is that EVERYONE (i mean everyone in your life) knew that you were about to get engaged and that all of their weird and shady behavior will make sense. Therefore also look for signs outside of your boyfriend. If you pay attention to other people in your boyfriend's life then you will be able to figure it out.

Anonymous · Answer

Well, I guess it’s time to tell you the truth. He’s going to get a sex change and his family are here to support him. They want to know about what stuff you can share with him.

I believe my boyfriend is going to propose! ?

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