My estranged sister has died.  Now what things would I best do to show support to my parents (mother especially)?

Honey, any death, of a loved one, or one who was not so loved, but whom you knew well, is a loss. Please accept my condolences. Now, about your postings: I think you are putting much too much time and attention into them, and that your energies might be better directed to doing what's needed vis a vis the funeral, your family, and your own personal needs. What we think really doesn't matter as much as all this.

So, upward and onward, with your life, and good wishes now.

Yeah, put the 'obit' as ANOTHER update, update troll, I for one would be FASCINATED.  You are obviously very lonely, and I suspect it's because of your toxic personality. 

Just tell your parents your sister sucked and you want no part in ceremonies to honor the wicked soul. Good for you by the way. 

I'm estranged from somebody in my family and I can understand how it makes one feel so of course you would rant and post stuff she wouldn't like and others may find negative.  My son passed away when he was 22.  He was full time college student and worked full time as a cook everyone loves him and we were all sad and depressed when he committed suicide almost fifteen years ago.  I still feel shocked sometimes he is gone but the depression is going away.  I would tell people she is at peace now

LOL RIP fake estranged sister.

Funeral homes have been backed up since the start of covid. Try harder.

I would ask your parents how you could be of help. Also be sure not to bring up any of the other feelings towards her that you have on here until after the funeral and around those who loved her don’t bring them up at all. As hard as it is just pretend that you were close.  It will make you come out the better person especially if as you know she was the guilty party. 

Sure, sweetie. She “died”’today - given the timeline of your trolling isn’t even cold yet - and you’ve already got a tentative funeral date, in the middle of covid when funeral homes are backed up for weeks, if not months. 

You really aren’t any good at this. And it’s clear you’ve never dealt with someone close actually dying.

Show up at the funeral. 

No she hasn’t. We all knew you were going to close out the fake estranged sister line of trolling with her “death” but we also know that this never happened. 

Good luck trolling the moderated sites: you’ll need it.