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Is John stupid to think he has a chance with me?
FYI: I make it clear that I want to date a man between 36-45. John is 50. Well over a decade older than me. Making him quite 'old' for my tastes.
John (age 50): Would you make an exception in regards to the age preference?
Me (age 38): Hi John, I guess it's true that men prefer to date women who are much younger than them.
John (age 50): You're a bit younger than me. But your age had nothing to do with my interest in contacting you. I decided to contact you because I really like your profile.
Me (age 38): Oh, ok then. So what are you looking for. I would like to marry and have children.
John (age 50): I would like to marry. But kids, I'm not sure. I really love my nephews, but having my own kids. I'm not sure about that. I'm looking forward to having some really great conversations with you.
2 Answers
- ?Lv 72 weeks ago
He is not hearing you wanting children. You need a man wanting children, not dilly-dallying. You are not OLD, but you need your children now, in the next year or three. NOT too much later. 45 is about the latest to sensibly have a child. IMHO anyway.
But kids,STRIKE ONE
I'm not sure. STRIKE TWO
but having my own kids STRIKE THREE but a FOUL BALL.
I'm not sure about that. SWING AND A MISS HE'S OUT!
I don't think 50 is too old for you. At age 49, my wife was 38... but I don't know him. I'm still a teenager. (our 18 y.o. son says he sees me more as a brother than a father...)
