Have you ever stopped talking to a close friend?

iam sorry to heard that you had to go through that but you know you should not be blame for it because your friend should had say some thing to you or she should said some thing to her boyfriend not untreated her best friend like that. you know what i use do had 1 of my best friend stefanie who i grown up since a childhood and throug high school. that best of mind just did something that made our friends ships breaks . she wasnt a bad friend just she wasn;'t a truthworthy  and honestly friend i ever known .after high school  she started lying and making up too many rumors behide my back that wasnt true she never did said sorry to me what she done .so i dedicate to end our 25 years friendship. that happened and i dont really much care for her anymore. she did other things to ,she likes to steal my boyfriends because she was so feeling jealousy about why i had a boyfriend and she didnt had one . really silly how other friend feel like that way. but anyways maybe you should try to talk to your friend and see if she and you can work things out and tried to forgive each other and stay friends again. if she doesnt want that then she is not a good friend for you. wait see few months  she will realize that she did some thing terrible and realize she lost a good friend after all. and its not your fault . you can find a better new friends soon maybe in the summer break you can find more better good honest and trust and nice and respect people who dont mind to be friends with you. go see a movie go out for ice cream. her boyfriend  must be control her not to speak to you or be friend with you. 

yes. if i find that my best friend isnt loyal to me, or she cannot be trusted or she doesnt have much intimacy towards me, or sheis selfish, i just avoid them. i have avoided 4 or 5 best friends like that. and what i understood is that there are no best friends (atleast between girls.) i dont know about boys friendship.  

yah. sometimes breaking relationship is needed to be alive ,,,

I had a best friend when I was about 10 years old into my 20s. She was a few years older. We were neighbors. After she moved we all would visit each other,  hang out,  etc. School and work did stop us from hanging out. When we were in our early 20s that's when it we kind of were going out separate ways. She got into drugs a little and was a smoker. I have a family of my own so I don't do that stuff. About 5 years or so ago we went out to eat. I was thinking wow I missed our friendship and thought it was going to go back how it was. Then when I tried to hang out with her to go eat she kept making excuses. I'm not hungry, etc. I was just like no need to rekindle our friendship. Plus she is around my brother who is an alcoholic. After what happened in the past with our family. I don't want nothing to do with that. It sucks but I don't want toxic people in my life.

I wouldn't "ask me about your story", which makes no sense. Read it again, what you wrote.   People do move on, for a million different reasons. It has happened to others (including me), but life will go on.  All you can do is tell her you wish you still were friends, that you don't understand what happened, and the rest will be up to her. It sounds like her boyfriend has a lot of control and influence, a sad thing for her, as well as for you. Good luck,

Best friends use to be special, but now they are like clothes to me. I change them often, from one to another, as reality demands. They pretty much all have it coming. They expect a lot, you give it to them, but be wary if you ever need them or ask them to do something simple and here comes a long list of excuses. 

That is when I drop them like a hard rock. Some even came knocking after I started ignoring them, but I pretended no one was home. They get the message. I know the kind of friend you had; they always come running back once they break up; I have had friends like that too. The latest one left a message saying "I know with the COVID and all that things are not normal," but to contact back. Yeah right. Good luck with that.