So upset over no baby?

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I'm so upset. Just got period.  I'm 35yrs old.  Iv got 2 boys and 1 girl.  I want to finish my family b4 I'm too old.  My kids are 6 4 and 2yrs. I wanted this to be over by 35
 I want another girl to complete my family. Why cant I get what I want. We are trying for a whole7 weeks

helene · Accepted Answer

Sounds like your family IS finished. Yay, right?

LizB · Answer

You mean you got pregnant the first 3 times in less than 7 weeks? You do realize that is statistically unusual, right? 3-6 MONTHS is average.

? · Answer

You're trying too hard.  Just take it easy, relax and it will either happen or not.

Anonymous · Answer

I haven’t even had my first child yet an I’ve been trying for 4 months with nothing but I have hopes. I would say just keep trying sometimes it takes time but I believe you will be pregnant again soon. Luckily you were about to have 3 children already though. Some people can’t even have one.

Anonymous · Answer

A whole 7 weeks! You must be infertile then.

Anonymous · Answer

My guess is that you're a 17 year old pimply virgin who can't find anything better to do with your spare time.

? · Answer

I want this baby without any treatment.  I want to feel like a woman.  I want this to stop affecting my life plans. I want this baby, a girl by 2022.  I want them to be near in age. Why cant this happen. It's really not fair

sunshine_mel · Answer

Your fertility will be reducing as you age (for both you and your partner). 
Stress reduces the chances off getting pregnant.

Also; you don't get to pick gender; so don't pin your hopes on a girl.

A Hunch · Answer

Creative writing is not your strong suit.
Stick with the day job.

Anonymous · Answer

maybe by being happy with what you got

So upset over no baby?

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