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Why would a guy ask to get a hotel room with me?

I asked him to a concert, and he suggested we get a hotel room after. 

When we got to the hotel room he wasn’t very nice to me. I didn’t like how he treated me. In fact I’m still trying to process all of it. 

If I would have left I felt like he would have tried to hurt me-just my feeling.

Why would a guy do this? Like why pay for a room in the first place if you just want to hurt me?

Why show interest in the concert if you just want to make me feel bad?

“His ex-girlfriend this...her masters degree...her this, she had a really nice condo...”

Why try to kiss me and then tell me you need to start working out again to get hard?

Update:

I think this guy is a jerk!

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  • 2 months ago
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    I don't know. Why did you agree to get a hotel room with him? If he was cruel to you  then please forgive yourself for putting yourself in the situation and if he brutalized you then file a report with the police. This "a guy" isn't someone you allow yourself to be alone with again. There are lousy fellows in the mix of good ones. I'm sorry. 

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    Lv 7
    2 months ago

    The majority of the time I got a room with a female, was the promise of sex. Now, I can remember twice getting rooms with no intention of having sex. Just friends with no place to really hang out, I even paid. Boy was I naive.

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