How do I tell if an affectionate female friend likes me?

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Back Story:
Knew this chick since I was in the 7th grade
Started liking her last year
Told her I liked her and she didn't have same feelings
Told her I'd stop talking to her to get over feelings
We start back talking and I eventually catch feelings for her again
I tell her, again, but decide to not remove myself from her again
She tells me that before I left last year she was in the beginning stages of "liking" me, but me going cold turkey stopped it
I felt like an idiot

Current Story:
She has started giving me more attention
Comes to pick me up out of the blue
We hang out and I end up spending the night(no sex)
We hang out again the next day
She wants to buy me stuff(food and such)
She tells her mom she doesn't have any money
I say I don't want her buying me stuff period and especially if she doesn't have money
She says she has money and to not tell her to not buy me stuff
She is affectionate and such but has always been like that
I think she's awesome and I really like her, but I'm not sure how to tell if she likes me or not.

I'm trying to "go with the flow" and stuff, but I also don't want to flow my stupid self right past an opportunity.

dumdumlala · Accepted Answer

Hmmmm.. 
I think she likes you but im not 100% sure D:
If i were you i would continue going with the flow..
until you get some concrete hints!
Then you should take action!!

yes · Answer

From next time don't "tell" a woman that you like her, "show" her that you like her. Showing means like affectionate touching, kissing etc. "telling" a woman switches off the surprise factor and not knowing, and it brings down the chemistry. When you actually show affection when the unknown factor is still on, it can create a lot of sparks and things can get on fire.

I Think you should move on from this woman and focus on other things and start dating other women, then she might get jealous and attracted to you. Then you can get her if thats what you want. But not now...not like this. Good luck!

Edit: I read only the first section of your question. After reading the whole question, I feel she is into you. You should make the move now. Wait for the right moment and kiss her. I think it will work out. Good luck!

Anonymous · Answer

Nothing worthwhile is ever easy.

How do I tell if an affectionate female friend likes me?

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