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Wants Girlfriend to dump me for a good reason?
ok well my girl friend and i are going out (obviously)
but the thing is like the reason why i cant be with her is because
she and i are going on 2 different ways. but the reason why i want her to dump me is
1. so she wont feel more discourage about me dumping her
2. so she can be more out there then less being isolated with one person
3.she can understand that there is better guys out there
are these good reasons why she should break up with me...?
the thing is
i dont want to be with her is because
if we stay together then the effect of us will be in danger
also it will be really hard for us to control
6 Answers
- 1 decade ago
that made very little sense at some points...
you can't really make a girl dump you. this isn't family channel. just tell her exactly the truth and that you think it would be best for her if you broke up and you really don't want to break up with her but you have to because your going 2 different ways
- 1 decade ago
I think your just making up excuses to make yourself feel better. You want to break up with her because she is not what you want. if she was you wouldn't be asking this question. i think you should be honest and stop acting like she is a moron that wont know how to function in life without you. im sure she will will "bounce back" and be ok. you should probably give her a little more credit.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
well the only way your gonna be able to do it without her begging you to stay is to do/say something really bad to make her think your an asshole and shed be better off without you so your gonna have to either a) lie say yourve either met someone else or cheated on her b) tell her the truth c) tell her you no longer love her
id personally go with the truth but these are your options good luck :)
- Anonymous1 decade ago
You're not always going to be able to protect peoples feeling. Now is the perfect example of this. In my opinion, stop being so scared and just talk to her, because turning into a idiot won't please your girlfriend anymore then dumping her will. Just do it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
what are you 12? just break up with her..all this bs about getting them to break up with you because you don't want to be the bad guy, it's lame and everyone can see right through it, makes ya appear weak
- Anonymous1 decade ago
just dump her you idiot
