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If you have never cheated on you wife or girlfriends: Why?

I have never cheated on my present woman, nor on any of my earlier fiancees, and I have the intention that I never ever will. I have had my chances, because my wife trusts me, and I want to keep it that way.

I assume I am not alone. So if you have never cheated, I would like to know why, and why it is important for you.

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    I never cheated because one only gets one chance at it. Even if my wife never found out, I would know and it would kill me. In a marriage, I guarantee that sooner or later, you will go through a spell (week, month, maybe a year) when you two can hardly stand each other. To be able to fight through that time, you have to trust and be honest with one another. Cheating would break that down.

  • 1 decade ago

    My guy never cheated on me because he loves me. Why would he want to go out to some place and hide when he knows he can get whatever he wants right here. Plus he can get a good home cooked meal afterward. Besides, he knows I'd take him to the cleaners if I ever caught him.. Now that is real L-O-V-E.

  • 1 decade ago

    when you chose your woman that means you chose the person who gonna help in you in the rest of you life ,so you have to be good with her as she is good with you ,in that case you have to cheat on ,there is no reason to do that because sex is sex what ever you do and all the woman are the same ,

  • ?
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    If you are with the right person you want want to cheat.

    I dont know how noble it is to have never cheated but wishing you could.

  • 1 decade ago

    I never did because I knew who I was and how I felt for her and how she felt for me. I heard a saying a long time ago that went like this: how can you say you love me if you don't know what hurts me? While our relationship had other kinds of problems, fidelity was never one of them. As a wife, she was very devoted.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    i cheated on my girlfriend with her mothers boss, it was so worth it, i did it cause i didn't have a ring, now i'm married (not w/ the same girl) and i wouldn't cheat on my wife cause we love each other so much to get married and she will kill me and cut my nutts off if i cheat.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because I promised I wouldn't! It is mostly about me; I can't expect my partner to be faithful if I am not and I have a sense of honor about keeping my word.

    But also, a very big reason is that it is a very unkind thing to do to someone you love, unless of course they couldn't care less, which doesn't apply to many. It is a small price to pay for a close and trusting relationship. Also, I suspect it is far easier to never go there, than it is to come back from there.

    And your kids will probably turn out just like you.

  • 1 decade ago

    may be it's in you "Honesty"

    or because you really like the person you're engaged to so you're afraid to loose him if she finds out you're cheating on her

    so it's either honesty or fear or may be true love

  • 1 decade ago

    Men who cheated on their wives/girlfriends don't deserve to be called men. (maybe my words are a little overboard)

  • 1 decade ago

    well simple coz i love my girl enough and dont seems to have any roam to for anyone else to fill in my life....just want to love her to the fullest...cheers

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