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A few weeks ago I was with my boyfriend in the car, he was browsing through his phone n I saw in the window reflection that he deleted a couple of pics of a girl from his phone. I asked him after that to show me the deleted items on his phone n he acted like he didn t know what I was talking bout. The next day I told him that I had seen deleting pics off his phone so he told me that it was one of his employees that found a job overseas n she was just updating him on how she s doing. The pics were two selfies n yes she was clothed.

I was surprised by the whole thing coz according to him he has a strictly professional relationship with all his employees especially the females.

So went on to send me snapshots of their conversation of him telling her that he has a gf n she apologizing coz she didn t know.

Ugh, what do u think?

We've been dating for more than 6 years now and I know that he loves me but we just don't go out anymore, we don't meet.. Last time I saw him was 2 months ago.. And when I bring it u he says our lifestyles r hectic, and WE r busy with work n what not, and then he keeps telling me that hearing my voice and me stopping by his work place or vice versa for 5 minutes is enough for him.. Can someone tell me what could be the problem coz I really don't know.. We used to go out all the time..

I am 27, I broke up with my bf of almost 6 years today.. I just feel like I am at a point in my life where I have moved on professionally and I am starting to take major steps in my life.. All but us that wasn't moving forward, I stopped feeling like I wanna call back or make any effort, I didn't even feel excited when I saw him after being overseas for 4 months.. Funny thing is lately he had started to want to meet up but in a place where he knows we r not gonna meet anybody we know, he got upset when I posted something on his Facebook wall.. He keeps saying that he wants to get married but he's not taking any serious steps to put us in that track.. What do u all think, why is doing this?

I am lets say older than 25 n not yet 30...I've known this guy my whole life we practically grew up together n around ten years ago he told me that he likes me n to be honest I felt the same but just because of the fact that we grew up together n we r like brother n sister I rejected him..now more than 10 years later I met n spent some time with him n god those feelings r back again..The way he looks at me n the awkwardness between us tells me that there's still something on his side as well..keep in mind that during this time I met a guy n I am very much in love with him, we've been together for 6 years now..but I don't know what todo about these feeling for this other guy that just won't go away??? HELP!

Today is My boyfriend and I 6 year anniversary n every year he takes me out to dinner n we exchange gifts but this year we only said happy anniversary over the phone n then he txtd me on whatsapp n that was it..is this downhill for our relationship? Is he getting ready to dump me?

My boyfriend and I have been together since 2008..we've been together for 5 years now,we went to college together n graduated almost 3 years ago..he talks bout the idea of getting married in general but not once did he discuss any of his future plans with me n I just find it weird.we tried to talk bout it once but he got all defensive n claimed that i sot appreciate or support his efforts when all i did was ask bout his plans..he said that he's planning in getting married 2015,and he doesn't have any plans of getting engaged during this time until 2015,he wants to get married right away..i have no doubt that he loves me but making US official n public is what I want.

My boyfriend n I have been together for 4 years going on 5 this June..he has been telling me bout this girl who works in the office with him how cool n nice she is n that he's been telling her bout me n stuff..so after almost a year my boyfriend and I were out n this girl comes up to him n says hi n he didn't even introduce me to her..why do u think he did that? I already asked him but i wasn't too convinced with his answer.

I just saw a few minutes ago on my bf's list of friends on facebook 1 of his ex's "they were 2gether for a month or so"...Is that normal for him to add her or even accept her invite?(i still dont know who added who)..And why would he keep this from me?

My boyfriend and i have been together for 3 years now..Im 24 and he's 25,our relationship is more than great and we both know and talked bout our future 2gether we even talked bout how many kids we want to have...So anywho my question is do u think we should at least get engaged?

Coz to me its the right time but i never got a clear answer from him...

All he says that im workin' hard so i can marry u,but heck when??? when im old n blind =( lol.

I am graduating from uni next month and i have to choose 3 songs for the dj to play when i get on stage..Any ideas?

So this gurl goes to school with me n everybody seem to think she's HAWT..I dont think she is all that n i keep tellin' my friends that but they just all think im jealous.

What do ya'll think?

Plz dont start with "ur jealous n what not too" coz im not,im just confused.

Thnx.

Its his birthday on Monday and im out of ideas,i gave him pretty much everything u can think of in his past birthdays and our anniversaries..

HELP!!!!

Yesterday in the lab my b/f was washing his hands aftre class and then this gurl came to wash her hands as well and she stood super close to him and they were talking to each other like HIS FACE WAS IN HERS...

So anyway i didnt like it and i told him that how am i supposed to feel special if u talk to her the same way u talk to me and i asked what makes me special?

HE COULDNT ******* ANSWER..He was like I DONT KNOW..

Im hurt and dont know what to do..

I have maybelline concealer,u know the one in the small thingy that looks like a lipgloss...Is it ok if i used it as a primer on my lids for eyeshadow?

i dont use foundation i only use Nivea compact powder..Before the end of the day my face is all oily n messed up..

I dont wanna use expensive brands just good homecare is enough for me..

What can i do before i apply my makeup?

Here's the deal,my b/f depends on me to pay for everything..He even gets upset when he wants to go out n i tell em that i need the money for other things so we cant go out..

And now he wants me to order shoes online for him n PAY for them..

Is it just me or this is just WACK???!!!

Plz show me a nice way to tell him that he needs to man up n pay for his stuff n take me out on a date n actually pay for it,i need to feel like im with a man not a burden on my shoulders..

P.S: i can pay every ONCE in a while but i dont want it to be a habbit..

And yeah,he is 23 n he refuses to get a job saying that he's too busy with school..

I dont knnow what gurls do to make their skin glow,its like they rub their legs with an oil or something before leaving the house...

What products does that?

Does it stay or is it just a couple of minutes thing?

thnx...

Yesterday my friend called her sister from my phone..2day when my bf was goin through my phone,he saw the number n was like "who's this"?

I replied that i dont know n he didnt believe me (as usual,especially when there's a guy involved)..So he caled the number n a guy picked up(it was the sister's husband),the second he heard his voice,he flipped out n accused me of callin the number n what not..

I got so mad at him n ignored him all day..later 2day i told him who the guy was(after i asked my friend bout the number she called yesterday) n he didnt even apologize..

Why doesnt he trust me?(i dont give him any reason not to).

Shuld i forgive him?

What should i do to make him trust me?

I got a bunch of roses yesterday n i dont want them to die soon,i'll feel so bad :'(

Any ideas on how to make them last longer?

I had this really good friend( a guy)...we've been friends for almost 3yearz...The day he found out that i have a bf (as i was keeping it a secret just to make sure that it's safe to tell everyone that im in a relationship),he flipped n he was screaming why didnt i tell him bout it n was shaking like a mad man...that was a year ago n we havent spoken since then,he doesnt even look at me when i walk by,its like we never knew eachother...

I really miss him n i dont know what to do,i really want us to be friends again..