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I m a Capricorn woman and she s a Cancer woman. We were together almost a year and ended up breaking up because we both had some things we needed to handle going on in our lives and we were unable to devote a lot of time to the relationship. We still talk and see each other every day. We have lunch together every day. She told me that after we get our lives together then we would get back together and continue our relationship. Then she said that I should move on and she will find me another girl friend but she still wanted to be the number 1 girl in my life and even come before my new girlfriend when I get one. There s another girl that we both know and the girl likes me. The Cancer woman made it very clear that she doesn t even want me to talk to the girl to even say hello. She wants me to stay clear away from her. So recently the Cancer woman told me to be patient and once every thing is in order then we ll be back together. Which is what I want and I told her that I would wait because I m not interested in anyone else and I m also getting things in my life in order. So I still call her babe or baby which she ll call me that too when we re talking. She asked me why do I do that and I told her because I still see her as my wife (we were engaged and planned on getting married) and it doesn t actually feel like we are not together since nothing actually changed. We just don t have the title. So then she said that she doesn t want me to feel mislead and that there is nothing that she s done to make me feel like we re getting back together. I referenced the many times she said that we would get back together, the fact that we still act like we re together, and the whole thing about her staying my number 1 girl. So then she said that she was playing when she said all of that and now know that she can t play with me in that manner. I was totally in shock and confused because she said all of that about getting back together and being my number 1 I asked if she was serious and she said that she was. Now all of a sudden she s was playing. Why would she play with my feelings like that? It s like everyday she s a different person and what she said is no longer how she feels. After she said that then I said well I guess we ll just be friends only. I m just so confused. I love her and want to be with her but I don t want my feelings to be played with if she really doesn t mean what she says. Does anyone think that she really does want to get back together one day or should I just move on? She is just really confusing me and my emotions.

I like a Taurus woman that said that she only wants to be friends. So every time she sees a girl talking to me she gets mad or say something mean about the girl to her face. She always flirt with me and always overly excited to see me. I feel like she likes me too but I just don't know what to do. I hear a Taurus will tell you directly if they like you but she shows all the signs she's interested but then tell me that she only wants to be friends and gets jealous when other girls are interested in me. Should I move on or just give her time to be honest with herself and say that she likes me too?

Confused Cappie

If a Taurus woman likes you, will she have her friends try to become your friend? Would it be a way she can keep tabs on you and know what's going on in your life without her directly asking?

I've like this Taurus woman for awhile. She will seem to be into me then go cold then back to hot. Recently she's kind of been ignoring me but whenever I really need something important she is there for me. Her friends have really been in my space and business. Right now I see more of them than her. From what I've read about Taurus is if they are into you then they will be clingy and since she's not clingy should I just move on?

I hear people talk about the Taurus harem so I wonder how do you know if they really care about you or if you're just part of the harem?

I thought a Taurus woman liked me. She showed all the signs and even enjoyed gifts that I gave her. The last gift I gave her was flowers and then she stated that she only wanted to be friends and she apologized for leading me on. Then she acted like she was uncomfortable around me so I just gave us space. Now whenever she sees me with someone else she still gets jealous and looks all sad in the face like she did when I thought she liked me. I still like her but she said she only wanted to be friends so why is she sad and jealous when other girls approach me?

I seriously like this Taurus woman and she knows that I like her. I've never actually told her that I like her but show her in different ways. Now I'm at a point to where I want to just go up to her and just tell her that I want her. Would that be a good idea or do you think that would scare her? As a Capricorn I know she's only seen that calm cool side of me. I think she likes me too since she's never told me to back away or declined any advances I've made toward her. And anytime she's mad at me for some reason her friends will be mean towards me. I don't even do anything to upset her but she wont tell me why she's ever mad and just act like it's nothing but then end up ignoring me for a few days. Any advice will be great Thanks in advance

I just want details on how a Taurus woman would reject you in different situations. Like if they are your friend, or not your friend, or if they do like you but not ready for a relationship.

I'm seeking some advice on what my next step should be. I'm realizing that I'm seriously exhausted and burned out from working too much. I work 6 days a week and for the past 3 weeks the company I work for has a mandatory 10 hour days for 5 days of the week and 8 hours for Saturday. I've recently been calling out of work at least once a week due to always feeling really tired, weak, stressed, aches and pains, and more. It's a customer service position where most of the callers are irate but I do feel like I'm helping a lot of them. I'm wondering if maybe I should cut ties with the company and move on or just try my best not to feel over worked and stick it out? I don't really see this as a career but I feel management depends on me to always be there. I hate feeling like I let someone down when I'm so use to being someone's backbone and their rock. I have yet to find my passion and kind of feel lost. I'm seriously seeking some great advice.

I have noticed about a Taurus woman I know that when we are together she is very sweet, open, has a soft spoken tone, and likes to be in my personal space. When other people come around or her friends she acts different. She has a normal tone, in her own space, doesn't really talk or be open much. It's kind of confusing because I would think that she would act the same with her friends the way she acts with me. We haven't really gotten to know enough about each other to really say we're friends but we do have an effort less connection and we just seem to click. I can definitely see us getting closer in the future and being in each others life.

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Cappie

I currently have a Computer Science degree but having a hard time finding a position in the field that I actually enjoy and is challenging. The only thing that I really enjoy is breaking the software but I'm wondering what type of jobs are out in the world that pays you to do that?

Does a Taurus normally initiate contact when interested or does their lack of initiating contact mean they're not interested? When I initiate contact they do respond and keep the conversation going but I just don't want to feel like I always have to contact them first and bothering them when maybe they just don't want to talk.

Cappie

I currently have a huge crush on a Taurus woman. I kind of think she likes me or maybe she's just being polite. She's always laughing at things I say when I don't even mean for it to be a joke but just stating a point. She gives me one of those school girl giggles which is so cute :-) She constantly stares at me and loves when I approach her. If she walks by a few times and I don't acknowledge her then she will definitely get my attention by kicking my chair or sliding her hand across my back. I have told her a few times how beautiful I think she is but I really need to know how to really find out if she likes me and get her to like me more so we can take it to the next level. I'm really shy and definitely don't like sharing my feelings but she always helps me forget about my shyness due to her welcoming smile every time I walk up to her. We also have nicknames for each other and she definitely cares about what I think. Any help is appreciated :-)

I'm currently trying to get into a relationship with a cancer woman but she has me a little confused. She talks about going places, having kids, and marrying me one day but sometimes she seems uninterested in me. I text her in the morning to say good morning and talk to her after work but if she doesn't hear from me then she gets upset and think I'm with someone else. I try my best to reassure her that she is the only person I think about and talk to. I don't know why she always wait for me to make the first move to call and text. When I text her in the morning she doesn't even reply. So sometimes I feel that she doesn't want to be bothered with me but then she gets upset. I'm totally confused and it makes me hesitant to ask her to be my girlfriend because it feels like she only likes me sometimes. I just don't know what to do and need some advice.

Cappie

I'm trying to find out if a taurus girl like me. She's kind of confusing me. She's always happy when I talk to her and become soft spoken when talking to me. She talks to other people in a normal tone but when it's just me and her she has a soft, cute, feminine tone. We are always staring at each other but she always seem like she wants me to always approach her. If I don't approach her then she will walk past me and talk to someone near me and act like she didn't even see me. I don't want to smother her so I don't always run and talk to her when I see her. She also find ways to touch me and I touched her once on her back. I don't want to make her feel uncomfortable always touching on her. Of course I don't mind when she touches me. I want to ask for her phone number but I just don't know if she truly like me or just friendly.

Cappie